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Do you feel as if you have a KICK ME SIGN on your heart? Unfortunately PRINCE HARMING SYNDROME seems to be a syndrome that plagues women of every age in every kingdom near and far. This NEW book will break bad love patterns for good!

Question: What makes your love advice different?

Karen: PRINCE HARMING SYNDROME offers a new strategy for successful love relationships — based on the ancient Greek philosophy of Aristotle - merged with cutting edge modern cognitive therapy — delivered with feisty humor. For example I advise you gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your Prince - but no need to kiss those pigs, dogs and jackasses. I then follow this feisty line up with Aristotle’s philosophies on happy relationships - which he advises are about surrounding yourself with people of good character — and working on your own character development — so you can grow into your best possible self. That’s a sign you’re in a happy love relationship - when you both support each other, challenge each other, inspire other to become your best possible selves! Although I wrote this book for women, the love advice in the book also applies to men - who might be wanting to avoid Princess Harmings! So if you’re a guy reading my book, feel free to apply the advice to yourself and how you might cure yourself from PRINCESS HARMING SYNDROME!

Question: So, what is a Prince Harming?

Karen: A guy who is either trouble - or troubleD. I confess up front I’ve had my share. Been there, dated him. I believe if you want to be happy in love, you must take the time to see past a person’s “superficial lures” (hottiness, funniness, smartness, success, status, power, fame, glory, wealthiness)— and look deep inside their “superinsidehimself” true core self. Unfortunately it’s very easy to get hypnotized by “superficial lures.” In particular, those fumes of chemistry can dizzy a gal into making stupid love choices. It’s hugely important to remember: Yo! Hot steamy chemistry eventually fades—and what’s always left beneath is a person’s true soul — his true character. A few years ago I saw an article about “The Psychopath Checklist”—a helpful list criminal psychiatrists use to test the potential of someone being a hardcore psychopath, capable of committing repeated evil and violent crimes. The list?

Glibness
Extreme charisma
Need to always be doing something
Feelings of high self-worth
Pathological lying
Proneness to boredom
Emotional unavailability

I realized all these personality traits described my ex-Prince Harming boyfriend - who turned out to be a dont-get-me-started lying cheater. The lesson? A good personality is never to be confused with good character. It’s essential to look for someone who values growing into their best self - which means someone with appealingly good character. Charles Manson, Stalin, Hitler and Mussolini were all very passionate, charismatic, intelligent, successful guys—but that doesn’t mean you should have dated them! In my book I offer many helpful methods for really exploring who a person is! I say “If you want your prince to pop the question, you have to pop certain questions up front” — which I give readers. Plus, I also say “You gotta be the change you want to date” - and work on yourself as well! I give tips for how to “troubleshoot problems with your Prince — without wanting to shoot your Prince” and I offer “Princess Charming School secrets of seduction.

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