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You are the common denominator in all your relationship problems! If you keep finding yourself saying “All the people I date are friggin nuts/commitment-adverse!” — you must ask why you keep picking people who are friggin nuts/commitment-adverse — because there are loving/sane/commitment-ready people out there! In fact, wherever there’s an all encompassing always, all or never in your life, it’s a sign that your mischievous subconscious is setting you up for failure, by consistently leading you back towards these repeat performances!
Come join me on 5 Sunday nights in NYC - the first THIS Sunday Oct. 25th at 5pm - and I will help you to jackhammer drill down, down, down and discover what your mischeivous subconscious is up to, choosing those Prince Harmings and Princess Harmings of your now forever past!
I’m calling these series of 5 Sunday Evenings: POST-DATE RECAP SEMINAR SERIES! I want you to bring me your Love Questions - and I’ll give you my Love-Boosting Answers!
MY GOAL: I want to create a power posse of support - accountability buddies - and an ongoing sense of empowerment to move forward into the best relationship of your life! By coming to these seminars for 5 Sunday’s in a row, you can really forge forward in creating supported change - by literally helping to reprogram your patterns of thought to support more positive thinking — and thereby emotionally healthier dating habits! These seminars are adapted from my Oprah.com-loved book PRINCE HARMING SYNDROME - and include extra love-boosting techniques not available in the book or my regular column at Oprah.com!
BONUS OPPORTUNITY: You can become one of my VIP guests by simply buying this POST DATE RECAP SUNDAY SEMINAR SERIES package before this Sunday OCT. 25TH! Being a VIP means you can come FREE, FREE, FREE to this Sunday’s seminar - which is mainly for the PRESS — and so you get 5 Sunday seminars for the price of 4 - and get to sneak into a special, fun PRESS event!
THE DATE DETAILS:
10/25: Press and VIP Guests who purchase before Oct. 25th!
11/1, 11/8, 11/15, 11/22: Open to everyone!
INCLUDES:
5 pm: Love Potion# 9 1/2 Cocktails
5:30 pm: Seminar begins
6:15 pm: Dating Q’s + Love Boosting A’s
FEE:
BUY BEFORE Oct. 25th - come to this Sunday’s Oct. 25th for FREE — and thereby get 5 Sunday Seminars for a mere $50.00
BUY AFTER Oct. 25th - get 4 Sunday Seminars for a mere $50.00
HOW TO BUY NOW: Write to me at karen@notsalmon.com - and put POST DATE RECAP SEMINARS in the subject box - and I will send you info to buy this super reasonably priced package of love-boosting seminars!
At Door Single Tix: $20.00
Address: Kellari Parea Bistro, 36 East 20th St. NYC
THESE SEMINARS ARE FOR YOU IF: You feel like you’re wearing a KICK ME SIGN on your heart and are continually confused, disappointed and frustrated by your “bad luck” in love! Basically if you’re not leading your happiest love life, it’s because your subconscious has created an incomplete, shortsighted map of the world of love — and through Repetition Compulsion is leading you back to the same old situations and people! If you’re a “foodie,” a good analogy to describe Repetition Compulsion is to say it’s as if your subconscious has given you a very limited menu of life options — and so you keep repeatedly ordering the same lousy nauseating food options — which is really dumb — because in reality, you have many more yummy food ordering selections available! COME JOIN ME ON SUNDAY EVENINGS and I will help you to find the highly yummy love relationship you desire and deserve!
For more about how to break the Prince Harming or Princess Harming curse of your past, check out PRINCE HARMING SYNDROME by clicking this line you are reading NOW!
I was reading an article where someone described herself as having “A Fabulous Life.” A few thoughts quickly buzzed around in my head…
1. Wow. How unusual for someone to boldly describe their life so hyperbolically positive!
2. What the hell is “The Fabulous Life” anyway?
I write a lot about living your “best” life. Or creating your most “optimum” career. Is there a difference between “best” and “optimum”…versus… “fabulous”? Is the word “fabulous” merely a superficial word…or does it have substance?
I think the word “fabulous” can connote something meaningful — not merely glittery — if it’s interpreted as taking the time to enjoy the fun in your life. Sometimes we get so caught up in living the best life we ironically don’t take the time to wake up and smell the Frappucinos.
Indeed, someone recently shared how his accountant asked him to cut out all his Frapuccino’s — to save cash. But for him, these Frappucinos were a fun indulgence which made him feel…well, fabulous. Plus whenever he brought his wife a Frapuccino, she’d call him her hero – and there weren’t many times in his life he could get his wife to call him a hero.
In your striving to be the “best” and living “most optimumly” … are you losing some of the “fabulousness” in your life – all the fun, playful, sexy, sensual, glamourous, quirky surprising, zest-filled, exciting stuff? In the same way that it’s often said that “the good” is the enemy of “the great”…. are “the best” and “the optimum” the enemy of “the fabulous”?
Each of us have our own specific “Frappucino’s” which make us — and the people we love — feel fabulous. Are you taking the time to smell whatever your specific Frappucino’s are?
Because I want you to lead your most FABULOUS life - I want to strongly recommend a book by my fabulous friend/colleague Peg Samuel: HOW TO BE A SOCIAL DIVA.
Peg is divaliciously gifted (and swagged) woman- who always knows all the in’s and out’s of living the “fabulous” life — often with enviable discounts, freebies and upgrades - on everything including travel, entertainment, fashion, fitness, food, nutrition, beauty products, pampering relaxation tips — you name it - she knows it - and knows the best names to seek for it! Peg generously shares all her diva inside info in HOW TO BE A SOCIAL DIVA — and it’s a super fun read - written with feisty humor as it informs and enlightens!
If lately you’ve been feeling like your seeking “the best career” and/or “the best life” — has ironically gotten you so frazzled that it’s gotten in the way of your living your happiest, most fabulous life, I strongly recommend you check out HOW TO BE A SOCIAL DIVA - which is available in bookstores and of course amazon - which you can get to by clicking this line here NOW!
In summary: HOW TO BE A SOCIAL DIVA is a must-read for seekers of the “fabulous”!
Want more happiness tips? Take a nice relaxing and fabulous virtual stroll through my happiness-boosting book library by clicking this line you’re reading NOW! 
Many of you who are already familiar with my past best selling books (like HOW TO BE HAPPY DAMMIT and THE BOUNCE BACK BOOK) - already know that my techniques/ theories are a hybrid of modern cognitive psychology, Aristotle’s timeless happiness philosophies, brain science, and energy theories on thought from quantum physics - all delivered with feisty humor.
(Hence why Jon Stewart of the Daily Show said about me: “Salmansohn has the soul of a stand up comic. The battle of the sexes has a brave new gladiator.” )
These 30 days on this blog are adapted from my newest book PRINCE HARMING SYNDROME - with lots of extra additions - which I’m writing daily now - to help further jumpstart you to go skiddadling towards happier love. For the ultimate full throttle jumpstart, I definitely recommend you check out the full book by clicking this handy dandy link-line here!
I’m a big believer that mornings are your trajectory for your day.
You must use you’re a.m. to aim you rightly.
FOR EXAMPLE: If a rocketship is off a few degrees before it launches itself towards the moon, it might wind up in Uranus. Ditto on your day. If you start off aimed in a thought direction towards what you don’t want, you will find yourself feeling as if you’re stuck in Uranus. Hence, you must make sure your day starts off aimed consciously at what you want - so you increase your likelihood of being over the moon about your life!
Aristotle was famous for believing that the best way to start any project—including the project called “Your Life”—is to begin with your final purpose in mind— or what Aristotle calls your “teleology.”
“Shall we not, like archers who have a mark to aim at, be more likely to hit upon what is right?” Aristotle asked.
Right now I will take up Aristotle’s advice—and clearly state my teleology for these next 30 days on this blog: I want to give you techniques to break bad relationship patterns for good so you can snag a happily ever after love future.
Now it’s your turn. How do you envision your teleology of a happily ever after love future? I want you to write an email to yourself — filled in great detail with a description of what healthful, happy love looks like, sounds like, feels like, smells like, tastes like, quacks like.
I did this every morning for the last year - and this truly helped me stay focused and energized to find the happily after love I’ve finally found.
Sure along the way I found lots of disappointing love — but this email visualization practice helped me to keep my eye on the prize of what I wanted in love — and thereby I found it.
Here’s what I do – and what you should do too:
1. Every morning when I wake up I look at my LOVE, WORK, HAPPINESS GOALS, which I have typed into an email and have been sending (and re-sending) to myself every morning for the last year.
2. Every morning I edit it a wee bit - tweak it ever so slightly - so these goals stay fresh for me. As I edit, I really get myself excited about the kind of life I want to create for myself. I then send it to myself, so I can re-read it again later (and even re-re-read it throughout my day).
3. Post-tweaking, I work out at my gym, while I’m still in this highly enthusiastic positive frame of mind about the kind of life I want to create for myself. I put on my favorite upbeat music to get myself into an even more excited state.
I’ve found that when I merge this “thought exercise” with “physical exercise I get even more positive results even more quickly. I got this technique from Tony Robbins, and I gotta say, I’ve personally found that exercising while I’m thinking positive thoughts has truly helped me in speeding up getting what I want in the long term. And in the short term, I simply feel more confident and at peace throughout my day!
KNOW THIS NOW: If you want to find happier love in your life, you must start with thinking positively about finding positive love in your life.
IT’S LIKE THIS: If you want to change the picture on a TV screen because you don’t like what you’re seeing, you can’t do it by wiping the screen with a cloth. You must change the programming to start seeing a new picture. Ditto with your life. If you don’t like what you’re seeing on your movie-for-one-called-Your-Life, you must change your inner programming.
YOUR ASSIGNMENT:
For the next 30 days I want you to quiet your busy brain and meditate on your “living happily ever after love future” for five minutes, three times a day. Do this simply by sending and re-sending, then reading and re-reading that email throughout your day. Do not envision a specific person you know in your love future. Leave room to meet someone even better than who you now know!
THE GOOD NEWS: Yes you DO have those extra fifteen minutes, so there’s absolutely zilcho excuses for you not doing these “living happily ever after” self-email visualizations for five minutes, three times a day — and keep on doing them for the next 30 days!
KNOW THIS NOW: Even if you don’t see results immediately, change will be starting to happen once you start this new 30 day visualization program. It really is the way to finding true love.
SEEING IS NOT ALWAYS BELIEVING .
HOWEVER SEEDING IS BELIEVING .
WHAT YOU SEED IS WHAT YOU GET.
If you are seeding positive thoughts and positive actions, you can feel certain that overtime success will eventually blossom!
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